Monday, December 17, 2012

End of the Year Survey

I've been trying so hard to figure out a new blogpost for this month. I've posted one before this today, but in my emotional state, I've decided to just do this survey for now. When I can put words together, I will post a new end of year blog post. So much has happened that it deserves a better recap, but with the tragedy in Newtown amid other things in my life, this seems most appropriate for right now.

Where did you begin 2012? In my new home with Al-our first together.

What was your status by Valentines Day? Together for the 2nd year with the same man,

Were you in school anytime this year? Nope.

Did you have to go to the hospital? Yes-ugh, April ::eye roll::

Did you have any encounters with the police? Unfortunately lol....only the accident and one other incident.

Where did you go on vacation? Joisey, baby, and Philadelphia.

What did you purchase that was over 100 dollars? A car, car insurance, animals (with the accessories, of course)

Did you know anybody who got married? Yes-congrats to my brother Teddy! :)

Did you know anybody who passed away? Yes-my boyfriend's family.

Did you move anywhere? In the beginning of the year, and that is it thankfully!

What sporting events did you attend? None-wish I could say I had

What concerts/shows did you go to? Jason Mraz

Describe your birthday: low key, dinner at Circa, then a pig pickin a week later (my first!) with great friends from work and great family.

What is the one thing you thought you would not do, but did, in 2012? Get more animals! Somehow, we've turned into the Carolina Ark House.

What has been your favorite moments? Eileen visiting, getting our second animal, our first place, my brother's wedding...there were a few!

Any new additions to your family? The list of animals...Joey (kitty), Anu and Harlot (rats), Pinky and Brain (mice), Brownie (guinea pig) and our three goldfish.

What was your best month? hmmmm....every month had its ups and downs. I'd say probably June. Or August! Eileen came to visit :)

Who has been your best drinking buddy? Haha Lou Anne Skinner! And Janeau, as usual!

Made new friends? A few (hey, Cybill!) ;)

Favorite night out? Going to the Cabana Club. Man, that was an experience.

Other than home, where did you spend most of your time? Janeau and Luther's, of course

Be honest - did you watch American Idol? Does The Voice count? ;)

Change your hairstyle? Nah. It's getting to be time for a change though.

Have any car accidents? Yep :( My shoulder still yells at me from time to time.

How old did you turn this year? 24. ::shudder::

Do you have a New Years resolution? Get into shape for my yoga teacher training in September!

Do anything embarrassing? Every. freakin. day.

Buy anything new from eBay? Nah, Amazon. Ebay only does Paypal now.

Get married or divorced? Nope.

Get arrested? Lol thankfully not.

Been snowboarding? Not in forever!

Did you get sick this year? Only when my wisdom teeth got taken out. And a mild sinus infection.

Are you happy to see 2012 end? I am so ready for 2013!

Been naughty or nice? A little of both ;)

For My Generation

When I was a child, we said the pledge of allegiance every day at school as written with our hand over our hearts.

We knew not to curse or we would be sent to the principal's office.

We knew if we got into a fight or threatened another student, we would be suspended, and our parents would whip us or ground us when we got home.

We walked the streets alone at the age of 10 because we knew which streets to stay on, which streets not to go near, and to leave our parents a note letting them know what we were wearing when we left, what time we left, what time we would be back, and who we were with.

We learned in first grade what to do if a family member touched you inappropriately, if a kidnapper tried to approach you, or if you saw a suspicious stranger.

We knew not to touch our parents guns, and that said guns were only to be used by policeman and responsible adults, unless they were being used for hunting with an adult or were of the bb/paintball variety.

We had these things in schools called mentors, and programs and special housing for children who were at risk, from rough backgrounds, or had mental/personality disorders.

Parents need to take responsibility for raising their children correctly, like our generation was raised. Our generation was NOT raised to be a bunch of sloppy, lazy, irresponsible, rude people. We were the last generation as a whole that I have seen to be raised with manners, respect, street smarts, and common sense.

Bring back kindness. Don't forget your roots. Because if you forget them, than every future generation will as well.